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(recommend Viewing on a larger screen than cell phone

Tuesday April 7, 2020

Dear Community, Friends and Acquaintances,

First, let me Thank You for your patience in receiving this long-awaited report that I view as the most important document that I published so far, and the most consequential one toward bringing closure to this multi-families created catastrophe. A closure to be achieved through my initiative for peaceful resolution presented below, or through the less desirable option of social apocalypse, as also explained below.

But I will open with the announcement of a landmark achievement on the path of peaceful resolution that leaves a door open for all those involved in this drama to exit in a peaceful way. A positive achievement that was not of my doing, nor of the script writers of this drama. The credit for it goes to the community, and specifically to one of its members who took the initiative to lay down the first stone. A big one that also validates my decision to share my story, as this achievement would not have been possible if I had internalized my problems to suffocate me.

MOST IMPORTANT: It is essential that you read this report to the end. Or you will have missed the whole purpose of the presentation, as I will tactically walk you down the different stages that culminate to a climaxing ending. And along the way, you will be pleasantly surprised at what community insolvent can accomplish. Finally, once you've reached the end, you'll also understand why it took me 3 weeks to prepare this report for you, and why your complete attention from beginning to end is important to me. May I also suggest reading it on a larger screen than a cell phone.

Having said all that, let me start with this heart-warming good Samaritan story that will prove to everyone:

"If someone has the will to reach for peace, then there will be a good Samaritan from the community ready to help him/her find the way to that peace.

It all began with a phone call and a simple invitation for a drink
 

THE INVITATION

A few weeks ago, I had received a phone call and an invitation from a community acquaintance who became troubled at the new direction that this drama was heading So he decided swing into action, and got INVOLVED to become a Good Samaritan.

Now, upon receiving his call, we engaged in a conversation during which he expressed everyone's feelings that it was about time that I rejoin the social scene to resume my activities, and not to let these issues push me into seclusion. With that he invited me to join him for a drink and to talk business at Brasserie Creole during its weekly Sunday evening of jazz, which had become a popular gathering time for friends in the community.

So I welcomed the invitation which we scheduled for the following Sunday March 8. But since I no longer have a car, with Marline still not telling me what happened to my Benz, he agreed to pick me up at home.

COMES SUNDAY MARCH 8, 2020

Early that Sunday afternoon, he called to confirm that we were still on for 6PM, the time he punctually arrived at my door. Now, as he drove around taking care of some errands before heading to Brasserie Creole, we got into some serious discussion on this drama that is now the talk of the town. At some point, I felt at ease to share with him information that I have never divulged to anyone else to show him that this campaign of hate, jealousy and division goes much deeper, and is even more sinister than my public writings have projected.

In the end, he asked me 'What outcome was I looking for, and what needs to happen to bring a resolution & closure to this drama?'. Well, the answer was not simple, as the issues are many, involving many people. So a resolution would require everyone's unwillingness to address the issues that cannot be left unanswered. For example:

1. The issues of my own family engaging in a secret plot against my marriage, then making me enemy #1 with no justification. All leading to the downfall of this family, as my sister and family elder Liliane Claude, allowed her daughter Johanne Dupiton to run wild and drive our family into disgrace. These are loaded issues that must be addressed before peace can be achieved.

2. Then the issue of a wife in denial who still can't face the fact that she was driven to break her marriage out of jealousy, then pushed into a life of lies that I am forced to refute, thus staining her image. Then as the central figure in this drama, it's time that he shakes off the brainwashing from her sister and my niece Johanne Dupiton to deal with the truth, the mess they created for her, and our remaining personal matters, like all my possessions, investments, car etc. they have her keep hostage in her home.

3. There is also the matter of my Mith in-laws. A family with its own version of Doc Dupiton in Psychotherapist Joelle Mith-Joseph. And just like my family that refuses to be accountable for the damages done by Doc Dupiton, the Mith family won't take responsibility for Joelle igniting this drama with her cruel "Assault & Punch Tiffany" lie. And as the ones who exerted the most pressure on Marline with the help of girlfriend Rachel Berthoumieux, they are responsible for Marline falling into the Dupiton trap of ultra-feminist indoctrination.

4. Then the most serious issue of my daughter whose mind they poisoned against me for use in their anti-marriage conspiracies. A daughter I never once had a problem with, and who I have not seen or spoken to in over 3 years. Something that I view as crossing the red line, and for which I will go to extreme measures to get answers and rectification.

Well by that time in the conversation, we had reached our destination, parked the car and entered Brasserie Creole to the sound of jazz by Eddy Brissaux & his band. After the initial round of handshakes, hugs and high-fives with people happy to see me, we took a seat across the bar with my back to the entrance.

THE MOMENT OF SURPRISE & SHOCK

So as we enjoyed the show, chatting with old friends, having a great time, this lady walked by and started to talk to my friend whose name is Jacques. As I looked up at her, I said to myself "This face looks familiar to me".
Then I looked again and said "She looks just like my daughter who I have not seen in years".
Then as I kept looking, I said in shock "Darn, this is Tanisha".

Upon that shocking realization, I got a hold of myself and said:

"Oh well, if she thinks that after all these years that I am going jump up and start talking to her just because she happened to stumble on me at Brasserie Creole, she don't know her father"

So I just put my head down, as I asked myself "Where the hell does she know Jacques anyway?". Then I watched her walk around our table, sat next to me, and wrapped her arms around my neck with a big smile, and said with a big kiss "Hi Dad".

So wondering what the heck is going on here, I looked at Jacques. And when I noticed a smile on his face, I realized that I was taken. So I told him: "You Mother F...r. Did you set up that whole thing?". So I looked back at my daughter still smiling, looking prettier than ever.

At that moment I got overcome with emotion, put my hand over my face, as I felt tears ready to come out. Then we got into a long big hug, after which I turned to Jacques and told him

AND HERE WE ARE. FATHER & DAUGHTER REUNITED

For the rest of the evening, we ate, drank, laughed and danced. Oh BTW: Jacques picked up the tab also.

After a couple of hours reunited, it was time for her to go home and get ready to start her work week as an I.T. Program Manager. So I again thanked Jacques and told him:

"Thanks again Jacques. You don't have to worry about the ride back, my daughter will take me home".

Arriving home, I invited her inside for a quick tour of Dad's new apartment. The first and only person in my family to know where I live, and who has been inside my new home located within a decent walking distance of Brasserie Creole, sister Roselyne Balmir's house and, oh well, Camkids Pediatrics. So I can no longer get arrested for walking down Camkids Blvd. OOPS, I meant Linden Blvd.

CONCLUSION -RESOLUTION
So, as far I was I am concerned, all was forgiven with my daughter. She was back, closing the most important chapter of this drama for me. But what's most significant is the fact that, as the youngest person caught in this drama, she has set the example for all her elders to follow, and sow them how family issues are resolved, and the police is not included.

SHARING THE GOOD NEWS WITH THE FAMILIES & THEIR REACTIONS

Well, there is more for me to say about this surprise reunion, and where we go from there. But before that, let me share with you some important messages I sent to my family and Marline's family to share the great news

SUNDAY MARCH 8, 2020
SHARING MY MESSAGE TO THE FAMILIES

Hello Families

I am sharing with you this text that I just sent to a friend and community member Jacques Ceran. The significance of which, will be obvious to you after you read the what I wrote and sent to him.
 

COUPLE DAYS LATER
 I followed up with 2 more text messages to the families

Good Day Families  6

Today I want to follow up with some positively motivated text messages that will also serve as the framework for my next publication, reporting good news to the community for a change, and proving the saying that often, “THE END JUSTIFIES THE MEANS”.

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Below is a picture of the reply I received from my friend to my 'Thank You' message for his initiative that gave me back my daughter. So, please read what he wrote first, and I will comment after.

Now FAMILY,

I must stress that beside a personal gratification, this reconciliation has removed one leg from this 4-legged drama, thus eliminating a major obstacle to full resolution.

In that light, you have observed in Jacque's reply the use of positive keywords of ‘RESPECT, PEACE, FAMILY, BROTHERLY LOVE, Etc.’ All positive words that I have promoted in my writings, but that did not produce any positive effect with the families.

However, those words did touch and motivated many in the community who reacted with encouraging words, moral support, payers, all the way to the full involvement that reunited me with my daughter. Therefore discrediting those in the families who referred to my publications as “Sh*t, BS, or Harassment to be reported to the police’.

And as I carried my heavy cross of adversities with dignity, I still continued to write to you about truth, respect, family values, and communication. Because if I had given to the instinct of returning hate with hate, an eye for an eye, and insults with more insults, it would not have resulted in this positive outcome with my daughter. That is why I always live according to Michelle Obama's words, "When they go LOW, Jean Claude stay HIGH"

Now with this positive end result, positive community support, positive feedback on my writings, the positive reply above from a non-family member, I hope that all this positivity will somehow rub-off on those family naysayers.

So with that, stand by for my next message: "WORDS TO MY DAUGHTER"

MESSAGE #2
WORDS TO DAUGHTER TANISHA (Slightly expanded)

Hi Tanisha,

While we have not yet spoken since your fantastic surprise the other day, I have been joyfully reflecting on the significance of that moment.

I always had faith that you’d come to realize how precious a daughter is to a father, and that the unique bond formed in creating a new life is unbreakable. Therefore any threat from anyone, specifically from women viewing the male father bond as inferior, will be met with extreme measures. And in our case, my extreme measure was in reaching out for community support through my writings, that in turn motivated another father to stand up and answer the call. So here we are today reunified.

However, while my friend hopes that our success will carry over to families, we also know that it takes two to Tango. And that dance would get even more challenging when it’s to the song titled ‘Truth & Honesty’.

But what made our dance go so smoothly, was your decision to stand up and take the lead. Then with me being a dance partner who was predisposition to tango, it all went smoothly.

In fact, it went so smooth that the answers to my questions on ‘Who, Why & What was done to my daughter ' are no longer relevant, and are now past history.

Even the 30+ years old skeleton that I was forced to revive in my defense, is now back in its coffin & on the way to final cremation. with the hope that it will also reconcile the 30+ years of peaceful rapport with your mother who was also tricked into this drama with the false promise of a delayed Karma. One that went along with Marline being tricked into the false promise of an ex-wives club with your mom.

Now, as I previously stated, our reunification eliminated one leg of this 4-legged multi-families and outsiders drama. So it is hard to envision any smooth dance with those avoiding communication, and who had rejected prior peace initiatives.

And as to the flexibility of the other 3 problem legs to join the dance, I will say that:

- One leg is bendable,

- One leg is hardwood.

- The last leg is cast iron rigid.

But as you opened the door to resolution, we’ll see who will attempt to bend to walk through that door, and who will let it close behind you. Thus forcing me into extreme measures to deal with the family disgrace and the stain on your grandmother’s legacy.

But I hope that your decision, as the youngest to take a leadership role, will motivate your elders to leave hate and divisiveness behind.

Talk to you soon.
Dad

WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE
BUILDING A ROAD TO RESOLUTION AND PEACE

FAMILIES FEEDBACK

 Let me start this section by first expressing my dismay at the reaction received from family members to the above message on this great news of father/daughter reconciliation on the initiative of a good Samaritan from the community. Not one person said one word, or even acknowledged seeing the above messages. Something that I view as a confirmation that their joy comes from division, not reunification.

In fact, it is standard reaction that I have long observed in this family whenever faced with something good and positive. And it's due to a condition that I previously diagnosed as an infection by the dreaded virus called "The Good-Stuff Allergy". A rare virus that has an affinity for haters, and is based on a scientific formula that says of those infected:

"Anything Good, Humane or Godly", is to them, "What a Cross is to a Vampire".

So my messages of reconciliation had that exact effect on them. In fact, they had also injected my daughter with that bug. But Thanks to God, she developed the antibody, and cured herself. Maybe there is hope for others with a Tanisha vaccine. So let's see:

A DRAMA THAT STOOD ON 4 LEGS

Now, with my daughter's successful elimination of her leg of issues, she also created the opportunity for a greater peace by leaving a door open for others to walk through and bring closure to their legs of issues on this conflict that stood on 4 legs, that I described as:
 

The instigators legs made of those who started, executed, and continued to keep the drama alive. Then the victims legs of those coerced into siding with the instigators to become their victims.

As you've already learned from the good Samaritan story above, this problem leg has resolved itself in a happy ending.

After being subjected to mind poisoning against her father, and dragged into the Claude/Dupiton anti-marriage conspiracies, she cured herself, got her father back, and snapped off her leg of issues.

So that's 1 leg down, 3 legs to go. The legs that I had referred to as 'Bendable, Hardwood and Cast Iron', based on their level of flexibility to join he dance of peace

Therefore, let's go to Problem Leg #2

A victim who was forced into ruining her marriage, then brainwashed to view her husband as the enemy, and the worst husband a woman can have. However, it is a leg that I view as 'Bendable', because it is the next easy one that can be resolved if Marline can find the will to be flexible and follow Tanisha's example. Specially since the 2 of them have many things in common as victims of this drama. Such as:

• BOTH are/were similarly coerced, used and victimized in this campaign to create division.

• BOTH are/were forced into becoming big losers. One lost a husband, the other had lost a father.

• BOTH are the ONLY women from both families in this drama who are unmarried and not a "Mrs."

• BOTH used to say "I Love You" o the same Elie man.

• BOTH carried the Elie name that was targeted for eradication. An eradication plan that will be fully presented in the most crucial presentation section at the end. (So be sure to keep reading to that climaxing end)

• BOTH consequently still like each other.

Now, if my daughter who is decades younger can stand up and decide to remove herself as a problem leg, then there is nothing keeping Marline from standing up and do the same without the influence of a controlling sister, daughter, girlfriend, or a Mad Doc from my family. And most important, this is not for a return to the marriage, but simply for the benefit of peace.
 

Answer to the Picture Quiz:

now if you had received the 'picture quiz' with 3 faces to identify, here come the answers.

Since it is physically impossible for any structure, table, or chair to stand on 2 legs, If Marline follows Tanisha's lead, and also removes herself as a victim leg, not only will there be no more Elie victims to fuel anyone's animosities, but the conflict, unable to stand on 2 legs, will start to crumble of its own weight.

In that light let me address Marline to give her an even more powerful reason for her to resolve her leg, using her own words relating to my daughter.

So, let's wish for Marline to find the will to do what is right. And on that, I have another massage for her further down.

Now, let's go to the 2 instigator legs

This is the leg that I view as 'Hardwood'. Because it is harder to flex in the direction of peace under the grip of Marline's sister Joelle Mith-Joseph, and with the men letting their overblown egos take over commonsense.

In addition, while not a member of that family, I associate my wife's girlfriend Rachel Berthoumieux with that leg as an outside instigator

Now, the Mith have a lot more to gain by encouraging Marline to follow the path of peace, rather than for them continue focusing on disliking Jean-Claude who did nothing to them. Because n the end, they mostly succeeded in victimizing their own Marline by pressuring her to break her marriage. A pressure that Marline fought against for years as her family ignored her pleas that she was happy and that her husband did nothing to her or anyone. Something that is evident in the way that her family totally ignored what she wrote to them in a poignant letter in which she told them.

I Married Jean Claude because I love him.... He is a good man, a caring husband, giving, and lots of fun... a proud man, worked hard for what he has... When we marry we become one.. Etc. Etc.

So let me directly ask the Mith family these questions that I've asked before.

- Why were these honest and pleading words from your sister and niece ignored?

- Why were Joelle's divisive & untrue words blindly taken as the bible over Marline's?

- Why were Marline's daughter Tiffany's words given more weight than her mother's?

- Putting aside Joelle's fibs, Can you point to ONE (1) thing that you personally know that Jean Claude Elie did to his wife, her children or anyone in her family?

Now I don't need the answers. These questions are for you to answer among yourselves. But I can tell now that you will have no answers, because none exist. .And if you can find ONE, send it to me and I will publish it.

But I can also tell you that the reason no answers exist is because:

•  Just as my family has its troublemaker Johanne, yours has its troublemaker Joelle.

• Just as my Johanne victimized me, your Joelle victimized your Marline.

• Just as my Johanne used my daughter, your Joelle used Marline's daughter.

• Thus explaining why both our families have exhibited abnormal behaviors with no answers.

But the big difference between us, is that I stood up as the man of my family against our divisive Doc Dupiton, while the Mith men bow to Joelle's control..

But since it's never too late to do right, the Mith should redirect their focus from me to what's best for Marline and become a positive force contributing to the cause of peace by removing themselves and Marline as problem legs. Therefore leaving the Claude & Dupiton alone, trying to support this heavy load of drama standing one leg, and looking for a way out.

So I wish the Mith family a successful resolution of its leg of issues.

And now, let's move to the most challenging 4th leg in the resolution on this drama. The Claude/Dupiton cast iron leg.

Now, this is the point where I planned to present my Major Proposal that is centered around my family, as this Claude/Dupiton will most likely present the biggest roadblock to the peaceful closure of this drama.

 But before I do, it is important that I first share some information about me, for you to understand why I do what I do, and take the stand that I take against injustice & and the immorality infused into this family, and against outsiders leveling disrespect and vulgarities on a member of my family, as was leveled on me. Because I also view these act , as insults to my late mother's and to her legacy. A mother who built this family through sacrifices, and who molded me into the person I am through discipline, respect and education. All values I've witnessed drag through the mud by her own family members.

Even more important, this short presentation before the Major one, will give you an understanding as to why it is, that in spite of all the ugliness, cruelties and disrespect I was subjected to, I can still stand as the Bigger Man to offer a peace proposal to those who did me so much wrong in order to avoid the 'Nuclear Option''

So let's go into this personal story which is a shot version of a prior publication, but with new info necessary to appreciate the important & climaxing and Major Proposal that follows,

THE MAKING OF JEAN-CLAUDE ELIE
MY MOTHER, AND WHAT AM I THANKFUL FOR

You may have observed that I often make reference to my late mother in my reports, and specially when addressing members of my family. And there are many significant reasons for that. A few of which I will mention here to give you a greater appreciation for this report, and realize the deeper meaning of this catastrophe that goes way beyond the marriage break up, contrary to what many still think.

As the saying goes, 'one must know your history, where you came from, and how you came to be who you are', or you will deviate on the wrong path and commit major errors in life. And unfortunately, this is the case of my family engaging in morally self-destructive behaviors, and adopting mentalities that are totally uncharacteristic and disgraceful of the family that used to be.

 A family that has forgotten the sacrifices made by our matriarch in building her family on a solid foundation of discipline, respect and character. A family that, in my 6 decades on the planet, I had NEVER ONCE heard the words hate, eviction, police, crazy, mental etc. And hell would freeze before anyone thought of disrespecting an elder, whether a parent, an uncle, or even a stranger. A family that never threw anyone to the streets or called a member to court. And the evils of jealousy and greed never dared come close.

Then comes a baby niece whose diapers I used to change, thinking that an MD. is a badge of superiority that makes her a Queen Cleopatra who must be happier, have more, and live better than the rest, to the point that an uncle living in Jamaica Estates drove her up the wall. Well, I could go on and on, but you got the picture,

So, let me explain why all these are intolerable to me as the son my mother left behind

HOW MY MOTHER DID IT

As a single mother in Haiti, she raised 2 daughters and a son working as a school teacher and a seamstress. And as her only son, she instilled in me at a very young age the values of character and education so that Claudy the boy would become Jean-Claude Elie, the man deserving the respect of all. Then with her mission accomplished, she left this world in peace, knowing that the respect he gains from others will be the fruit of her sacrifices.

So during my adult years, I committed myself to live by her values, teachings and to earn that respect in my personal, professional and social life. However, upon my marriage to Marline Mith, this earned respect that I enjoyed for decades and my marriage became under assault by ill-motivated and jealousy-driven women within, and outside the family. Assaults that I overcame thanks to my mother who had prepared me with the right tools for battle against the haters of the world.

So let me present you a quick summary of how my mother molded me into this person.

As a Toddler:

For my early education in Haiti, she stretched herself to give me the best start with private Catholic school education at 'Seminaire', in company of the children of upper class families. Often, I'd come home with a note about unpaid tuition. So she'd work late into the nights, sewing one more dress to catch up on the payments. With that, I successfully completed elementary, and started secondary studies at that school, before moving to the US.

As a teenager

Upon moving to NY to live with my sister Roselyne Balmir, her husband and my mother in in their Cambria Heights home, I remember our first conversation as if it was yesterday.

- She asked me "Now that you are here, what are your plans?".

 - My response was: "I hear how tough it is in the US. So I want to help the family".

- She firmly replied: "NO!, NO You are here to go to college and become an Engineer as you always said"

Now, with me being a shy teenager in the big city, and not speaking one word of English, my brother in law suggested that I was not yet material for the tough US college studies. So he recommended that I attend a trade school and consider college later. That sounded fine to me, so I said OK.

Soon after, my mother called me on the side and said firmly: "Gadé Claudy, pa kité moun diw'w ou paka al nan college. Se nan college ou pralé pou ou vin ingenyè. Mwen fin palé".
(Don't let anyone tell you that you are not smart enough for college. You are going to college to become an engineer. That's final)

Mom had spoken. So while doing one required semester in HS, I caught the attention of an older lady teacher who got in contact with my mother & sister Roselyne to help me apply for college with my still limited English. And upon HS graduation, 6 months after entering he US, I was admitted to 2 colleges, and opted for the Pre-Engineering program at Queensboro College. Then transferred to City College for a Bachelor in Mechanical Engineering, with my mother making sure I stayed on track, and financial support from my sister Roselyne Balmir.

Upon graduating, I had a hard time finding employment in the field. Then Bridgeport University contacted me with an offer as an Engineering Tutor in exchange of free tuition, room & board toward my Masters Degree.

Well/ after all these years studying, I wanted to make some money & have some fun, not go back in the books. So I told mom that "I was going to take a break, get a temporary job until something comes up in engineering & later consider going for my masters."

My mother quickly jumped on me and said . "Ou pa byen nan tèt ou? (Are you crazy?)/ You get a chance to get your masters for free, and you want get some job? Over my dead body. You're going to Bridgeport Univ. to get your Masters.

Well, I was mad as hell. I wanted to have some money & have fun. But getting mad was my business. As Haitians would say, 'Ou faché nan kanson'w'. Mom had spoken.

But soon after, I received a letter and an offer from E. I. DuPont Co. for a great Engineering position in NJ, with a tuition reimbursement plan toward a Masters degree after 1 year of employment. My mother, sister and I celebrated the great news. Then on to NJ to start my career with a great job.

As a young adult

Now with money in my pocket, my large apartment in Wayne, NJ, no mom watching over me, and no more books. Life was good

 That was until I got a phone call from mother who asked me: "Claudy, It's been one year on the job., and now eligible for tuition reimbursement. So did you register for your Masters Degree yet?.

Wow, I said! Obviously I had not even thought about it. So I said "I am working on it". The next day I got on the ball and 6 months later, I was driving 3 nights a week after work to New Jersey Institute of Technology in Newark to pick up on my studies. Then a few years later, I graduated with a Mechanical Engineering Masters Degree in Machine Design.

Then I started to go up the ladder from project Engineer, to senior Engineer to management as Engineering Department Manager, all the way to Director of Operations & Engineering at 2 other companies.

That is when I took my sister Roselyne's son Frantz Balmir under my wings from a bank teller Job where he was wasting his new engineering degree, and into 2 consecutive lifetime career positions in Engineering. Something he will thank me for decades later in 2018 when he got hired by Doc Dupiton to evict me from his mother/my sister Roselyne's house who is afflicted by Alzheimer with no clue of the disgrace her sons were bringing to her house where our mother had taken her last breath years before. So lets jump to that year.

2005: WE SAID GOOD BYE TO MOTHER
Then in 2005,we said good bye to her, as our maker concluded that her responsibilities on the planet were successfully achieved; and called on her to come home. So she left her son as the elder male and official patriarch of her family, who then took responsibility to look after her legacy.

MY BIG DECISION AS MARLINE & I MEET AGAIN.
Then came the time for my last big decision in life. The decision to settle down for my old age. B but after 2 prior divorcés when I invested a lot, and lost everything, I became very skeptical and untrusting of women. And while I met many good candidates, I would always find signs of trouble. Because making one more bad choice at that stage of my life would be devastating.

Then came Marline back in the picture to make the decision easy for me. After all, who else could be a more perfect choice for wife than the woman I've known for 18 years, previously dated for 5 years, never saw a flaw in her, and who I believed back then would make a perfect wife. The Marline I called her 'My Queen' and who called me 'My honey', as we were soul mates. But the only worrisome sign that made me decline her wish to be married the first time, was the unruliness of her young children, specially her daughter Tiffany, who I knew would conflict with the discipline and respect I was raised with, and would expect in any Elie home. So based on that, marriage was not an option at the time and we parted ways in totally friendly terms.

But now that the children had grown from adolescents to grown adults and college graduates, Marline truly became the perfect choice, as the only potential children problems of had dissipated with maturity. Or were they?

And I remembered that my late mother did like Marline, and would have approved. So much so that when I told sister Liliane Claude that Marline and I had reunited, sister Liliane went down on her knees, raised her arms toward heaven, and said these exact words. "Mom, your son is in good hands now". So what then happened with sister Liliane?

So without hesitation or looking back, I made Marline Mith into my better half as Marline Elie until death do us part..

By the time we got married, my RockMasters Marketing Business was going great and I had become a well-known and respected member of my community, receiving many recognition awards for community service, with few examples pictured below as evidence.

A level of achievement reached because of that last phone call from my mother demanding that I go for my Masters Degree. And because, even as a young adult, I took her advice and respected her commands.

AND THIS THE KIND OF FOUNDATIONS & FAMILY HISTORY & THAT THE CURRENT FAMILY MEMBERS FORGOT DRIVING THEM TO SHAME THE FAMILY & DISGRACE OUR MATRIARCH'S LEGACY. WELL THE LAST PART IS WHAT I WILL NOT ALLOW.

And let's see why....

THEN COMES THE OUTRAGE WITH

INSULTS ON STEROIDS

RESOLVING INSTIGATOR LEG #4
THE CLAUDE/DUPITON CAST IRON LEG

Well, you have finally arrived at the heart of the matter with my family, and the presentation of my proposal to bring closure. Because if there is going to be a peaceful resolution of this 4 year old conflict that was created out of my marriage to Marline, this is the time. Because, short of a peaceful resolution, the other option that I am left with, is not a pleasant one.

Now with my daughter's leg of issues eliminated, and with the assumption that Marline and the Mith family take my advices above and in the proposal below, we will be left with only the Claude/Dupiton trying to keep the drama alive on one leg, which is the focus of this coming proposal

So, let's get to it..

Let me start by saying that, while a peaceful closure of this last leg is not impossible, it will be a more challenging venture for the members of this family, including the Claude, Dupiton, Colimond and Balmir. In addition, I will mention Marline Elie who was the one used as justification, since the families have admitted through their own words that their actions were done on Marline's behalf

Let me open my proposal by answering 2 key questions.

#1) WHY IS PEACEFUL RESOLUTION IMPORTANT TO ME?

Well, as you have arrived at the most important point of this report, there is a critical question that must be asked.

In light of the successful reunification with my daughter which brought closure to a most personal issue to me, it is time to look at the big picture of this conflict to see how to build on that success with the volume of unresolved issues that divided this family. So I wondered to myself:

WHAT'S NEXT? DOES PEACE EXPAND TO EVERYONE, OR WILL THE APOCALYPSE THAT I WARNED ABOUT BE REQUIRED TO FORCE CLOSURE?

Because, while I have been sharing my story with this select community group for the past 2 years, I've been dealing with the this conflict for 4 years. Therefore at some point in the very near future, this matter must come to a close one way or another. And my first choice was always that it be through a peaceful resolution. But while I offered it more than once before, it was always ignored. However simply walking away was never going to be an acceptable form of closure. Because these outstanding issues are equally important as the issue of my daughter that was successfully resolved.

Another such central issue is the self-inflicted disgrace to the family that my mother sacrificed for, which I will never accept as a 'fait accompli. Because that would be a betrayal of my responsibilities as her only son, elder male of her family, and the inherited patriarch of her legacy.

Then, since she was such a messenger of peace, I made peace my priority over the option of launching the 'Nuclear Option' campaign toward social apocalypse of the remnant of her family. Thus the reason, I am giving peace one last chance.

#2) WHAT MOTIVATED ME TO MAKE THE OFFER AT THIS TIME?

Now, as far as the motivation to extend the offer at this time, the idea was not mine. The credit for that again goes to the community, and specifically to the honorary brother who gave me the advice in his message below, as circled in yellow.

Therefore, I must address brother Jacques personally to present my proposal in response to his advice.